And P.S. what a lovely thoughtful partner you have...cultivate him. My partner, who I perceived as taking no interest whatsoever and couldn't recognise a plastic beaker from a Whitefriars, discovered at a recent fair a perfect small W/F drunken bricklayer for an absolute song!!! WAS I SURPRISED!!! Had to fill it with Baileys to celeebrate the whole experience!
Emmi